|Gym to Crag! Transitioning to Outdoor Climbing|
I've participated in many conversations over the past year with families who'd like to reach the same point that we're at with family climbing. However, there are usually things standing in the way:
- We lack the skill and training to climb outside on our own (knowing how to lead a route and set up a top rope, knowing how to build an anchor, knowing how to clean a route...)
- We have our harnesses and shoes for inside climbing but don't have the gear for outdoor climbing. (no rope, no "rack" with quick draws and other important pieces of equipment for leading a route, no climbing helmets...)
- We don't know where to go for outside climbing
- We don't have anybody to go climbing outside with
- I don't know if my kids would like it. Would they be safe? Is there protocol to follow at a crag to ensure happy relationships with other climbers? Is it a family-friendly environment at most crags?
|Raising Crag Kids from a young age|
Step One: Building the Skills you'll need for Outdoor Climbing
As with most sports, you can't just show up without some training, a lesson or two, and a good introduction from an experienced friend or teacher. Climbing is no different except that here, there's no room for errors! (kind of different from joining in on a game of soccer for the first time!)
1. Build your skills inside first.
|Learning to climb at the Calgary Climbing Centre|
The Calgary Climbing Centre also offers lessons (including family lessons) throughout the year at their facilities across the city and Yamnuska Mountain Adventures offers programs as well that will teach you to climb and lead outdoors.
Finally, I highly recommend joining the Alpine Club of Canada if you're serious about climbing. This past summer, the ACC Calgary section offered a cool program called "ROCK-IT! Real Outdoor Climbing Knowledge Introductory Training Program." Kids were allowed to tag along with adult's taking the weekly classes and if I'm correct, it was FREE for ACC members. The program was amazing from what I heard and it introduced all of the skills required to climb outside. Hopefully the ACC offers this cool program again next summer.
Unfortunately most of these groups won't run too many programs over the winter, but you can find the program that would work best for you and plan to sign up next spring so that you're ready for outdoor climbing next summer. In the meantime, practice your indoor climbing so that you'll be comfortable on the wall when the time comes to move outdoors.
|For kids, the Calgary Climbing Centre's "Climb Park" is an awesome intro to climbing|
2. Sign up for an Guided or Organized Group Climbing Day
|Sign up for a family climbing day with an outdoor club|
There are also many meet up groups in the city that plan climbing days for adults. Usually other members will have ropes and leading experience so beginners can just practice outdoor top roped climbing. And while this won't help you as a family, you can at least get comfortable climbing outdoors as an adult before you bring the kids (always recommended with any new sport.)
Finally, the Alpine Club of Canada organizes both indoor and outdoor climbing events through their local sections where you can learn from other members with more knowledge, gear, and experience. We're members of the Calgary section and can join up for climbing, scrambles, mountaineering, and even the odd family backcountry trip.
|Climbing is always more fun with friends|
3. Find a Mentor Family or Group to Teach you the Ropes
When we go out climbing with friends, we always allow novice climbers to come with us. The requirement is that you bring at least one harness for your children to share (ideally one harness per child climbing,) that at least one adult per family can help with belaying (and has their own harness, belay device and locking carabiner,) that you bring helmets for everybody in your family (even a bike helmet for the first time or two out,) and that ideally, if you have a rope, you bring it. If not, we share ropes amongst the group.
Ideally, we go as a large group when inviting new climbing families so that there are enough ropes. More than 2-3 kids per rope and you'll find that everybody is sitting around too much. Hence the photo below:
|You'd better bring some toys if you are going to have more than 2-3 kids sharing a rope|
Going to the crag with more experienced climbers is beneficial for many reasons:
- You can share gear that you don't have yet (it takes a long time and a lot of money to collect a good climbing rack)
- You'll learn proper crag etiquette if you go with an experienced group. (Hopefully anyway!!)
- You'll learn where to go and can benefit from the guide book your friends probably have showing all of the routes at the local crag.
- You can brush up on your technique, get some mentoring in the finer points of safety and attention to detail, and even practice your belaying while a more experience climber supervises the first couple of times. Once you are ready to try leading, friends can help you here too and can give you reminders on anything you may be rusty with.
- Going with a group gives you "supervisors" on the ground for kids who aren't climbing. It also gives you plenty of adults to carefully monitor younger children who may be hanging out, but not climbing much yet.
|Extra adults means extra hands on the ground with younger children|
Step Two: Gearing Up for Outdoor Climbing
If you're going to join a club trip or are going to go out with a group of friends, you'll need the following: One harness per member of your family that is climbing or belaying, a belay device per adult who is climbing with a locking carabiner, and a helmet for everybody in your family.
Ideally, you'll invest in your own gear but you could rent the above items for your first time or two out. Ideally you'll also invest in real climbing helmets! Bike helmets can be used but are not advisable as they are designed for side, front and back impact and not rock fall which is more common than actually falling on a climb and hitting one's head.
|Climbing helmets are an investment but they are an important purchase for safety|
The next piece of gear that you'll want to invest in is a rope. Even if you can't lead yet, bringing a rope is a good contribution when climbing with friends and shows that you are serious about getting into the sport. I find there are always two to three adults per group who can lead, but often not enough ropes for the 2-3 kids per rope ratio. If you don't want to buy a rope on your own, consider splitting the cost with friends who want to get into climbing.
|It's helpful to have multiple ropes when climbing as a group|
The rest of your climbing equipment can be built up as you develop the skills to lead and put up a route on your own. At this point, I'm going to assume you'll learn what you need to invest in through the course you're taking or through the friends who are mentoring/teaching you.
|We finally invested in real climbing shoes for our son. BIG difference!|
Other items I always recommend bringing when climbing as a family:
- Wet wipes! (trust me, the kids will be filthy at the end of your time out and you'll have to clean them up at least a little before letting them get in the car)
- Spare clothes for the drive home (or pajamas if climbing in the evening after work)
- Toys for those times when routes are being set up and for when the kids are waiting their turn to climb. We like sand toys and find they always get used when we bring them. We also like bringing a blanket to sit on while playing, eating snacks, or reading books
- Lots of snacks!!
- An emergency "bathroom kit" for those crags that are more than a 5 minute walk from the parking lot. (Even a couple of plastic bags and some wipes will work)
- A first aid kit and band-aids
- Bike gloves (many kids will freak out if they cut their hand on a sharp rock or accidentally brush up against a spider hiding in a hole in the wall. This helps!) - and as an adult, bringing gloves helps keep your hands clean when belaying
- Long pants if possible. I cringe when I have to let my son wear shorts when climbing on hot days. It always ends bad when he scrapes his leg or knee on a sharp rock.
- Once your child is ready to climb a 5.6 to 5.7 route I recommend real climbing shoes. Before that kids can get by with a pair of running shoes. We recently upgraded our son's shoes and he can climb way better now! No more skiddering out on the rock, much better grip, and an easier time getting up steep walls.
|A well fitting climbing harness, climbing shoes, bike gloves, and a real climbing helmet|
Step Three: Finding your Family Crag Crew
For us, this has been easy because we are friends with many like-minded outdoor families, many that also enjoy rock climbing. If you find yourself alone though and in need of family friends, I can offer a few suggestions.
|Family Climbing Day|
In Calgary, join the Calgary Outdoor Playgroup Community where many families enjoy rock climbing. There are often posts in the group from families looking for other families to climb with. Sometimes we post official climbing events too from the group.
|This poor tree is usually just as popular as the actual climbing walls!|
Refer back to number one (building your skills) and join an organized family climbing day, take family climbing lessons at an indoor gym, or join the Alpine Club of Canada. These are all great ways to make friends who climb.
|The kids won't always be on the rock. In those times, they'll want a friend|
Step Four: Crag Etiquette and Safety
This is a huge subject that honestly doesn't require me to say a lot. Ideally, you have an outdoor group you climb with and are learning smart etiquette and safety through them. Ideally you've taken rock climbing courses and were taught to belay, to build an anchor, and to pay attention to every little detail (over and over again) from professionals. And ideally, you learned to climb outdoors before bringing the kids with you. (Something I advise with all sports.)
A few things that do come to mind though (that perhaps we can all use reminders for:)
|The belayer needs 100% focus at all times|
- Teach the kids to stay back from the wall when they aren't climbing.
This way, when somebody screams "rope," from above, you won't have to
worry that they are going to be hit in the head while playing with their
sand toys, oblivious to what's going on above them. Kids are a
distraction when you are trying to belay or climb, and are best
entertained a short ways away from the climbing wall for everybody's
safety. They also should not be free climbing up the wall when it is not
their turn to climb. They are either on belay and actively climbing, or
they are away from the wall playing.
- We like to keep kids in their helmets the whole time we are at the crag.
Wasootch Creek near Calgary is great with a group of children though
because they can go out into the creek bed to play (ideally with an
adult supervisor in case of wildlife) and wouldn't need helmets out
- Don't hog a route! I've seen guided groups show up, claim multiple routes, and then hog the same routes all day (even keeping their ropes up while taking a lunch break.) This isn't entirely cool. When we go as a group, we also share ropes and routes. We work as a team to set up as many ropes as we can and then we all take turns climbing the various routes and even belaying the kids as a group (possible if you trust the other parents in your group.)
- Keep an eye on your kids! Although "village rules" work in some
instances, some climbers don't like kids running around the crag getting
in their way. (Understandably so!)
- Don't be afraid to tell the climbers next to your family that swearing is inappropriate with children present. In turn, be respectful back at them though and don't let your children run around screaming in their climbing space.
- Always always double check everything. A girlfriend of mine tells a story of how she would have died on a rappel 19 years ago if it weren't for her obsession with double checking. On her last check she caught a mistake she had made that would have definitely killed her if she had leaned back on the rope. "Climbing is an exercise in risk management, kids are distracting, and there is no room for error."
- Teach your children to double check their system too. They can check that their harness is on right, that their knot is correctly tied, that mom or dad's carabiner is locked and that the belay device is set up correctly (kids can and should also take climbing lessons at a local gym when old enough so that they learn their knots, learn how to belay, and learn how to stay safe at the gym or crag.
- If you bring your dog to the crag, please ensure that he or she is on leash, tied to something (or at the very least if you are not in a park that requires this, that your dog is going to stay put while you are climbing.) People need to pay attention while belaying and don't need your dog running out and trying to knock them over. Some children are also scared of dogs.
|Family Day at the Crag|
Step Five: Top Tips and Tricks for FUN Family Climbing
For us, we started climbing with our son inside to see if he even liked the sport. We taught him how to come down from a climb (stressing a good "L shape" with his body,) and didn't let him get too high before ensuring he was comfortable with being lowered. We've also always made climbing about "social interaction" and "family fun" rather than about mastering a route. We climb with friends and the kids play as much as they climb. Finally we don't stress getting to the top of a route. If you want to come down, you come down. There might be some encouragement to at least "try" to go a little higher but in the end, the climber should always get to decide when they are ready to come down.
|Starting on short walls is always a good idea!|
Other advice friends have offered:
|Kids are so dang flexible!!|
- Assume the kids might only climb one or two times, and spend the rest of the time goofing around. (Bring toys, books, or other items for them to play with when not climbing.)
- Forced fun is no fun! If the kids don’t want to climb, they should not have to. Climbing is a "challenge by choice" activity.
- Climbing is scary. If the kids don't want to do it, I think it is ok for them
to just watch.
- Make sure your kid is very comfortable being lowered on the rope before
they get up too high. (We've had to rescue kids at the crag before with a second adult free climbing up beside the child to help them get down! Not ideal, but it's what happens if you let them get too high before they are ok with coming down!)
- It is good to have 3 adults at least when climbing with kids. One to
lead the climb, one to belay, and one for kid management. Then the
belayer can focus properly on belaying. (And personal story, I recently saw a dad out climbing with two children alone. The dad was high up the wall setting up an anchor, and was then belaying his one son up the wall from the anchor. No idea why he was doing that rather than coming down and belaying from the bottom!!! Anyway, the kid got scared trying to climb up and had nobody on the ground to help. He was crying, and dad was way up the wall. It wasn't a cool scenario and one I wouldn't like to see again.)
- Expect it to take a long time to get your routes set up. Leading a route and building an anchor is no small matter. Plan for some kind of activity to entertain the kids while you take care of this. And if you have a large group of kids, it is going to take a while to get multiple routes up, and to get all kids climbing. This is where it really helps to have adults on the group supervising (yay for parents who don't climb and just come along to offer ground support,) and to bring toys or books.
- Have the "bug talk" before the kids start climbing. Yes, there will be spiders on the wall. Yes, you will see bugs. Just leave them alone and ignore them. If you have a child who is petrified of spiders or bugs, anticipate a short climbing day or consider bike gloves so that at least they are not touching any bugs.
|This kid loves climbing!|
And last personal notes, I like to make sure we have at least one rope/route set up per two to three children so that they get plenty of opportunities to climb.
Also, it's important to choose a good crag with kids that has a short approach hike and offers plenty of room for the kids to run around when not climbing. Near Calgary, we love Wasootch Creek, and it's not uncommon to see an entire crag full of families climbing here on a sunny Saturday afternoon. (Show up with your own gear and rope, offer to set up a communal route, and you'll meet new friends pretty quickly.)
|Having fun at Wasootch Creek|
I highly recommend arriving early at popular crags too if you want to claim an easy wall.
Whatever you do, please don't drag a reluctant child out to the crag for an entire day of sitting there watching you try to climb that 5.12 you've been working on for a month now.
If you do have one child in the family who is less enthusiastic about climbing than the rest of the family, make sure you seek balance (one day of climbing, and then one day of biking - or whatever the child would rather do for a day.)
|Make sure they're comfortable with being lowered before you go this high!|
Top Gear that We Recommend for Family Climbing
The first big thing you'll need for kids is a harness that really and truly fits and absolutely can not come off over their hips (if using a waist harness.) Kids are top heavy and more prone to flipping upside down if they fall. Full body harnesses prevent this, but they also need to fit well and be sure that the kid can't wriggle out of them. My son has always worn a waist harness but we tried a couple of models before we found the one that was the best fit. We love the one we chose, the Black Diamond Wiz Kids Harness.
|My son's harness even gets used when scrambling|
For kids helmet, we love the Edelrid Shield Helmet because it actually FITS! I've seen so many ill fitting helmets on kids that slip around every time they look up or down, and absolutely hate the one I have for myself. But the Edelrid one never slips around and is super comfy. My son wears it for climbing and for scrambling.
|The cutest kids climbing helmet ever! And it fits!!!|
We've recently introduced our son to real climbing shoes as well and it's made a HUGE difference! He can climb so much better and isn't skiddering out all over the rock. He was fine in his hiking shoes or sandals when he was younger but now that he's able to climb a 5.6 or 5.7, he needs real shoes with grip. The shoes we have right now are the Mad Monkey Shoes from Mad Rock. We got them through All Out Kids Gear, a local company based out of Alberta with a great collection of outdoor gear.
And note RE buying climbing shoes - buy them a size or two big and just use socks for now. This way you'll get more than one year out of them!
|"Rockin out" with the Mad Money shoes from Mad Rock|
I encourage you to check out the All Out Kids Gear website and to order climbing shoes for your child online through them. It's always nice when you can shop local, and you'll be supporting owner Phillip Lund, an Alberta father who loves to take his own kids outside hiking, exploring, and climbing. On the All Out Kids Gear site, you can also check out the Mad Rock Solar Kids Harness and the Mad Rock Mountain Mama harness (The worlds first climbing specific harness for pregnant women.)
And while you're at the All Out Kids site, check out the Kids Bike Gloves from ZippyRooz (I can't say enough about these awesome gloves! Review to follow soon,) the Deuter Child Carriers and Backpacks (including children's backpacks which my son desperately needs in a bigger size for overnight trips) the Kids MSR Snowshoes (going on my personal list right now,) and the Roces adjustable ski boots (two different models for younger and older children) - and also going on my personal shopping list.
Note that there is free Canadian shipping and returns (on most items) from All Out Kids Gear.
|Sporting the ZippyRooz Bike Gloves|
Family Hiking at the Next Level - Scrambles and Summits
Calgary's New Climb Park - the Hanger
How to Keep Warm on Winter Climbing Days (fall climbing for those of us here) - Crag Mama
Climbing with Kids Leads to Lifelong Skills - Outdoor Families Magazine
Tips for Getting Your Fearful Kids Climbing - Kid Project
Crag Courtesies for Climbing Families - Kid Project
Special thanks to All Out Kids Gear for supplying us with a pair of Mad Monkey Shoes from Mad Rock for Review. All other climbing gear has been purchased on our own and we are not sponsored by any climbing company. All opinions are my own and I was not paid to write a favorable review for any of the gear that we use while climbing.
|Nearing the top of his route|